Posted on July 18, 2019 in Divorce

The breakup of a marriage is often an emotionally difficult experience, but it can especially hurtful when a divorce was caused by infidelity. If you find your partner cheating, you may have difficulty forming trust and establishing loyalty in future relationships. You may also feel that your ex-spouse's mistress or paramour caused you significant harm, and you may wonder if you can take legal action against them. In some states, a person can file a civil tort claim for criminal conversation or alienation of affection. In this type of case, a person can sue the person who broke up their marriage, asking the judge to award damages based on loss of consortium, mental anguish, and loss of support.

Criminal Conversation

Criminal conversation, despite the name, is a civil court case, and a defendant will not face criminal penalties or jail time. To sue a person in this type of case, hard evidence is needed to show that a plaintiff's spouse committed adultery. This evidence is usually obtained with the help of a private investigator, and it may consist of videos or photographs. It must usually also be proven that the infidelity happened within the marriage (not during a separation), that the act was committed with a person (a business such as a gentlemen's club typically cannot be sued), and the acts took place within the applicable statute of limitations.

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 Posted on July 11, 2019 in Divorce

Prenuptial agreements tend to get a bad reputation. A person may feel that a request to sign a prenup implies that one partner makes the majority of the money, and signing a prenuptial agreement may make it seem like a marriage is expected to end in divorce. However, a prenup does not necessarily have negative implications, and it can provide a number of benefits for a married couple. As people in the Millennial generation get older and begin to get married, they are agreeing to more prenups than previous generations. According to a study published by the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers, 62% of attorneys surveyed have seen an increase in requests for prenuptial agreements in recent years, and 51% of attorneys said that the numbers of Millennials requesting prenups has increased. Why is this the case? There are a number of possible reasons:

A Closing Wage Gap

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 Posted on July 09, 2019 in Divorce

Choosing to divorce is not a decision many people take lightly, especially if a couple has children. One of the primary concerns for divorcing parents is the ability to meet their children's needs, and in many cases, one parent will pay child support to the other following the divorce. However, determining the correct amount of child support can often be a complex matter, and the methods of calculating child support differ from state to state.

One recent study examined child support calculations in different states by considering a hypothetical couple: a father who makes $55,000 a year and a mother who makes $45,000 a year with two children who would primarily live with the mother following the couple's divorce. This example case was used to determine how child support would be calculated for this couple throughout the country.

The study found that the amount of child support payments varies wildly in different states, and it often does not correlate with the cost of living in a state. For example, New Jersey ranked 47th in the amount of child support payments that would be awarded in the example case, yet it is one of the most expensive states to live in. Massachusetts is the state with the highest amount of child support payments. Illinois is on the higher end of the scale for the amount of child support that would be awarded in the hypothetical case; according to the guidelines provided in Illinois law, the amount of support awarded would be around $870 per month.

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 Posted on July 08, 2019 in Divorce

Maintaining a healthy work-life balance can be difficult. Sometimes, a career can take up so much of a person's like that there is no room for a healthy relationship. If a partner feels like they come in second to their spouse's career, the likelihood that their marriage will end in divorce increases. A recent study which looked at divorce rates in different careers may shed some light on why people with certain types of jobs may be more likely to get divorced. If you or spouse are in a career with a high divorce rate, this does not necessarily mean that your marriage is doomed, but if either of you has not made an extra effort to carve out time for each other, this can be an indication that your relationship may be in trouble.

Workplaces With Temptations

Studies have found that a couple may be more likely to divorce if one spouse is in a workplace with attractive co-workers. Career choices on this list include bartenders, personal trainers, or dancers and choreographers. In these occupations, people are encouraged to wear attractive and tight-fitting clothing. According to a study published in the Journal of Police and Criminal Psychology with data from the 2000 Census, dancers and choreographers have a divorce rate of 43.1%, and bartenders have a divorce rate of 38.4%. Temptation in the workplace may lead to infidelity, which is a common cause of divorce. In fact, recent evidence shows that when people commit adultery, they are more likely to do so with a co-worker.

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 Posted on July 03, 2019 in Divorce

When getting a divorce, one of the major issues that must be resolved is how to divide marital assets. Many material possessions can easily be divided, or they may be sold, allowing divorcing spouses to split the proceeds, but some things have the same sentimental value to both parties. Family pets are often among the most hotly disputed “assets.” In fact, since many pets are treated like members of the family, disputes over their ownership can be similar to custody battles over children. When addressing these issues, divorcing couples should understand how the law applies to them.

Recent Changes to Illinois Law

In many states, pets are considered to be a part of marital property, subject to division between divorcing spouses. While this is also true in Illinois, on January 1, 2018, a new law went into effect that may affect pet custody cases. Under this law, a judge should consider a pet's well-being before awarding ownership of the pet to either spouse. In some cases, this may make disputes over pet ownership similar to disputes over child custody, and couples may ask the judge in their case to make a decision about who should be granted “custody” of the pet.

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 Posted on July 02, 2019 in Child Support

If you are getting divorced and have children, your relationship with your ex is not going to be over as soon as the final divorce settlement is signed. If you earn a higher income than your ex-spouse, or if you will have the minority of the parenting time following divorce, you may be required to pay child support that will ensure that your children's ongoing needs will be met. However, both parents have an obligation to provide financial support for their children, so it is important to make sure all relevant factors are considered when calculating the amount of child support payments. This will ensure that children's needs will be met and that the parents will both be able to support themselves. Some factors to take note of include:

Net Income for Both Parents

A basic support obligation will be determined that is based on the net income earned by both parents, and this amount is divided between the parents according to their percentage of the total household income. However, when determining the amount of each parent's net income, it is important to understand what adjustments may be made. For example, if a parent is already paying child support for children from a previous relationship, the amount of this support will be deducted from their gross income.

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 Posted on June 28, 2019 in Divorce

The choice to end your marriage and get a divorce is a decision that affects your finances, your relationships with family and friends, and most importantly, yourself. It is a decision most people spend a long time contemplating before they decide to announce that they want to separate from their partner. However, when the time does come to discuss divorce with your partner, you will want to make sure you approach this conversation the right way. Here are a few tips to make this discussion go as smoothly as possible:

Timing Is Important

When you know your relationship is beyond reconciliation, you can make the mature decision to end the relationship and detach yourself from your partner. You will likely want to complete the divorce process as smoothly as possible, ending your marriage without hurting your spouse. When you are ready to let your partner know that you would like to get divorced, choose a time when your partner is capable of receiving such emotional news. If they are stressed at work or are going through personal family problems, try to wait until those difficulties are over. While there is no perfect time to announce a break-up, some times are better than others, and you should consider your partner's feelings as you determine the ideal time to make the announcement.

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 Posted on June 26, 2019 in Divorce

If you are getting a divorce, it is likely to have an impact on all aspects of your life, including many that are unrelated to your relationship with your spouse. Getting divorced while maintaining a full-time job can be difficult, since there are a wide variety of legal and practical concerns that will need to be addressed. There will be important phone calls to answer, paperwork to look over, and emotions to manage, and doing so while putting on a professional front at work can be challenging. Here are some tips to help balance your work and the concerns related to your divorce:

Make a Schedule

Addressing the legal requirements, paperwork, and financial concerns of your divorce can be overwhelming. Going through the divorce process can feel like taking on a second job. However, it is important to keep your divorce proceedings and career separate to avoid jeopardizing your job. Getting divorced costs money, and on top of legal fees, you may need to pay alimony and/or child support. The last thing you want is to suffer career setbacks that may affect your income.

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 Posted on June 21, 2019 in Family Law

Choosing to adopt a child is a wonderful opportunity and a chance to give a child in need a loving and healthy home. If you are considering adoption, you need to know that the process can be lengthy and complicated. It is important to find a qualified adoption lawyer to help you meet your legal requirements and ensure that nothing will stop you from providing a loving home to an adoptive child.

Naturally, there are differences between raising an adopted child and a biological child. You will likely want to discuss the adoption with your child, and the way you approach these conversations can be different, depending on the child's age, the circumstances of the adoption, and your relationship with them. While conversations about adoption can be tricky, and they are likely to provoke a variety of questions from a child, planning for how to address these issues can ensure that you approach the subject in the right way, strengthening your relationship with your child. Here are a few tips to make the conversation easier:

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 Posted on June 17, 2019 in Divorce

While divorce can be difficult for a couple, it can be especially hard on any children they share. Divorcing parents will want to consider their children's feelings and help them adjust to a new situation as smoothly as possible. When determining child custody arrangements, it is important to create a parenting time (visitation) schedule which ensures that both parents and children know when children will be in the care of each parent. Here are some tips for how to make a clear and concise parenting time schedule:

Parenting Time Schedules and Exceptions

The first step in creating a schedule is to determine which parent children will spend time with on a day-to-day basis. This will be the regular schedule your children will be most familiar with. The frequency of when parents will exchange children will depend on the type of child custody agreement. If parents share joint custody, children may stay with each parent in alternating weeks or on different days during the week. While children may not want to pack up and move to a new house every couple of days, they will also do not want to get too comfortable in one house before they have to change houses again. Finding a happy medium that allows both parents to spend quality time with their children is key.

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